this morning me, nantha a.k.a “b”(nantha u know this b stand for wat aight 
) n kok king went to the trauma class together. the mood was very pleasant and 3 of us having conversations and laugh like we always did before. then after we arrive at trauma department 1 by 1 our groupmate came except ka keat<—- he got the zachet already… zzzz… he better than me lo… i was absent for 2 days already… he he… hrm… get back to the story. erm all of my groupmate went to the OT to watch the skin grafting procedure… ewww… gross 1… ha ha… sound ku[ab only… lol nvm… then we went to the stolovaya to grab something to eat n i ate 2 no-taste salad inside the stalo… dem typical “dish” of russian people… i kinda sick of it already… gezzz… wat to do very hungry lor… then we headed back to the class n the teacher came… then the story begin… i tot that the thing that occured was very funny n keep laughing… but i dunno that the same thing that i laughed at hurt someone very bad… i’m very2 sorry for being such a jerk… this blog i wrote to apologize especially and as a reminder 4 me not re’jerk’ing myself 1 more time in the future… i hope so<— cross finger (^.^)v
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hurting someone’s feelings is smth we do almost all the time whether we realize it or not..when we play around with ppl and hur their feelings,even unintentionally,some might show that they are hurt,with a sulky face,or shout back and saying that they don’t like it,or keep quiet for a few hours or the whole day..and when they do so,all sorts of reactions from those around them may suddenly surface : worried, sarcasm,or simply let the angry,annoyed person take his/her time to cool down..
nevertheless,there are some ppl who don’t show that they are hurt/sad/angry when being joked around with..not that they have no sense of humour,but different ppl have different tolerance and perception when it comes to interprating jokes and pranks..so plz be more observant about those around u..some may just put a smile on their face when in actual fact,they are really hurt..but for the sake of friendship,they ignore it and just take it lightly..however,the message that they have been hurt seldom reach even the closest friends they hang around with everyday..thus,the hurting happens again and again in the future,and the bottling up continues..when ppl hurt our feelings,we feel annoyed,sad,like we’re some kind of joke..or make one look so stupid..so the next time we wana say smth or play a joke on others, think first of how it would feel if we were in their shoes..can we handle it?? for all it’s worth,it might cost a beautiful friendship..but after what happened that day..i think it was rather good to know that even one of the most out spoken person have some sense of being hurt..thus making that person and those around more HUMANE..and perhaps…better friends in the future..the key : forgiveness (^_^)
Comment by ace0spade — November 2, 2008 @ 9:09 pm |